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How To Make Peace With The Last Year And Look Forward To The New One

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Out with the old and in with the new!

As the end of 2019 approaches, it can be tempting to set another New Year’s resolution, but we all know where it’ll end up – on next year’s list of resolutions. This year, let’s relieve ourselves of the past and leave room for the future. Check out our practical tips for (finally) crossing off your New Year’s resolutions list!

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How To Make Peace With The Last Year And Look Forward To The New One

What does it mean?

While it sounds easy enough, making peace with the last year and looking forward to the new one can be tricky! It’s about so much more than just making a new year’s wish (and possibly forgetting about it). Instead, it’s about facing, accepting and, eventually, letting go of the past, in order to welcome the present and the future. 

Why does it matter?

Though being a mama can mean revolving around the kids 24/7, it’s important to leave room for self-care. Over the last year, there may have been moments when you could have handled a situation better or times when you accidentally let out a bad word or two. However, it’s important not to beat yourself up, because we all have our rough days, and it’s okay to forgive yourself!

Making peace with ourselves is also the first step to bettering our relationships with others. From being a role model to the little ones, to developing better workplace relationships, dealing with unattended emotions and welcoming a better self can help open ourselves up to existing and new relationships.

How to do it?

From practicing an ancient Japanese philosophy to hitting the books, here are some hands-on methods to (actually) making that new year resolution happen.

How To Make Peace With The Last Year And Look Forward To The New One

If you’re looking to: Find closure

From settling into a new city to recovering from a relationship speedbump, it’s never easy to let go of the past. As the new year approaches, now is the time to regain control and start fresh! Start afresh by first decluttering your space.

Action plan: Try out the popular Japanese philosophy of Danshari (断捨離)! Composed of the ideograms Dan (to refuse) Sha (to dispose of) and Ri (to separate), this ancient Japanese philosophy is all about letting go of your mental burden by eliminating your physical possessions.

Extra tips: Unlike the KonMari method that focuses on an object’s functional value (or whether it sparks joy), the Danshari philosophy places heavy emphasis on the self. So, when deciding whether to dispose of something, simply ask yourself: Does my present self need this? If not – sayonara! After all, minimalism is about feeling free and mindful over what you have. To know more about the art of Danshari, check out the book Goodbye, Things: On Minimalist Living!

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If you’re looking to: Find clarity

In a city that’s all about finishing the next task, it’s almost impermissible to unwind. This is especially true when it comes to the life of being a mama, which is all about making every second count. Take advantage of the new year to slow down, be present, and unboggle your mind!

What to do: Try meditation! Slip into your favourite PJs, reflect on the past year, and be mindful of your surroundings. If you’re feeling negative emotions, acknowledge that these feelings are not necessarily reflective of reality. Most importantly, release those feelings and embrace a more revitalised version of yourself!

Extra tips: If you’re not sure where to start, there are plenty of podcasts and apps around that can help. Some of our favourites are Meditation Minis Podcast (available on Spotify and iTunes) and Insight Timer (available on iOS and Android). To get your kids to follow your lead, try Be Calm on Ahway Island (available on Spotify and iTunes).

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How To Make Peace With The Last Year And Look Forward To The New One

If you’re looking to: Find improvement

Anyone who’s written a new year’s resolution knows that a) setting goals and b) achieving them are very different (we’ve all been there!). It’s about time we change that and form new habits that actually stick.

What to do: Spend the last day of 2019 with a new book, get inspired and kick-start the new year the right way!

Extra tips: If you’re looking to get into a habit in general, try reading Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones. Or The 5 AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life is perfect for being more productive. If staying away from excessive technology, check out Digital Minimalism: On Living Better with Less Technology!

If you’re looking to: Find a new self

Ever thought of becoming a better version of yourself? Time to turn that thought into reality! In 2020, take that “new year, new you” mentality to another level by manifesting a new trait. Let’s do it!

What to do: From being more courageous to compassionate, pick a trait you’d like to manifest (and own it!). Make this a family activity by asking the little ones to also pick a word. Remind one another of their own word throughout 2020!

Extra tips: Start off by brainstorming different phrases, then narrow your way down. Also, try visualising the person you want to become in a year. Once you have a word, write it down and place it somewhere visible!

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Featured image courtesy of Irina Murza via Unsplash, image 1 courtesy of Daria Shevtsova via Pexels, image 2 courtesy of Bench Accounting via Unsplash, image 3 courtesy of Alina Vilchenko via Pexels.

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