Learn Something New, Mamas: Understand Your Kids’ Fascination With Gaming

… and decide whether you should allow them to game. We teach Hong Kong parents about Minecraft, Fortnite, Valorant and more. Learn about the world of gaming and video games; what to watch out for; and how and when games benefit children.

This special series aims to teach parents about what kids these days are into (sometimes it feels like they speak a different language!). Our previous posts covered YouTubers they were obsessed with, K-pop bands they were fans of, while this one is about what has always been a mum’s bugbear – the world of gaming.

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Why Is Gaming So Appealing To Kids In Hong Kong And The World Over?

“Ugh! Why does my kid stare at that screen all day?”
“Can’t he go and get some fresh air?!”
“Isn’t that a bit violent?”

It’s likely these thoughts have occurred while watching your kids game, while others launch into deadly attacks on the screen. Full disclosure – I am a 16-year-old avid gamer and I know that my mum has often had the same thoughts. Luckily for me, after careful consideration and discussion, while also monitoring my gaming habits, she has allowed me to game in moderation.

Gaming is something that has always intrigued kids (and I am sure many of you too, in your time!). But why? It’s a combination of:

• Engaging gameplay
• Reward systems
• Social interaction
• The ability to escape into another world

Not to mention that games are getting increasingly sophisticated. All of this contributes to the addictive nature of games.

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The Dangers Of Gaming – What Parents Should Know

Gaming can be an incredibly enjoyable and enriching activity for many people, but like any form of entertainment or hobby, it’s not without its potential dangers.

• Gaming addiction

Gaming addiction, also known as gaming disorder, is a real concern for some individuals. Excessive gaming can lead to neglect of other responsibilities, such as work, school, or personal relationships.

• The effect on physical health

Sitting for long periods while gaming can lead to a sedentary lifestyle, which is associated with various health risks such as obesity, heart disease and poor posture. Additionally, excessive gaming can lead to issues like repetitive strain injuries (RSIs) or carpal tunnel syndrome.

• Gaming can also affect mental health

While gaming can be a source of stress relief for many, it can also contribute to mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, or social isolation, particularly if gaming becomes a person’s sole focus.

• Violence and aggression

Some studies suggest a link between violent video games and increased aggression, though the extent of this correlation is debated within the scientific community. However, excessive exposure to violent content in games can desensitise individuals to real-world violence.

• Online risks associated with gaming

Online gaming introduces gamers to risks such as cyberbullying, exposure to inappropriate content, and interactions with strangers who may have malicious intentions.

• Financial concerns

Gaming can become an expensive hobby, especially with the rise of micro-transactions and in-game purchases. Some individuals may spend beyond their means on gaming-related expenses, leading to financial difficulties.

• Impact on academic or professional life

Excessive gaming can interfere with academic or professional responsibilities, leading to poor performance or missed opportunities.

It’s important to note that these dangers don’t affect everyone who plays video games and many people enjoy gaming responsibly without experiencing any negative consequences. However, it’s essential to be mindful of these potential risks and to maintain a balanced approach to gaming.

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Are There Any Benefits Of Gaming For Kids?

Before you feel alarmed, there are reasons why you should allow children to game. Don’t take the word of a 16-year-old! Look at the published studies of the stress-busting effects of gaming on undergraduate students. Every con or danger of gaming can be a positive, if practised judiciously, as advised by Dutch gaming experts, The Game Room (Editor’s note: the website is in Dutch).  

• Gaming can encourage physical activity

Sounds contradictory? Well, that depends on what games your kids choose to play and for how long. In recent years, there has been a rise in video games, such as Pokémon Go, Wii Fit, Ring Fit Adventure and Fitness Boxing, that promote physical activity.

• Social interaction & stress-busting

Online games, such as Fortnite and Fall Guys, are played with friends and improve team-building skills. Spending time with friends, even if via a virtual gaming session, can reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. Similarly, gaming is a stress reliever, and can reduce headaches and can lower the risk of insomnia.

• Improves hand-eye coordination

Have you been watching the Olympics and marvelling at the quick reflexes of Hong Kong athletes, particularly in badminton and table tennis? I bet they’d make excellent gamers! Many action games require quick reactions and amazing hand-eye coordination.

• Gaming can be mentally stimulating

Gaming has often been blamed for turning us kids into zombies (and not without cause), but in truth, games such as Portal 2 and Uncharted involve plenty of problem-solving tasks that could encourage analytical thinking. Children who suffer from attention-deficit disorders are often encouraged to try online games which can improve focus levels.

So keep an open mind and learn about the games your kids enjoy before making an informed decision.

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5 Popular Games That Kids Are Playing In 2024: From Minecraft to Fortnite, Valorant and more

While parents may like to wish it away, the fact is gaming is here to stay. Gaming has become a significant cultural phenomenon, with competitive e-sports events drawing massive audiences and gaming conventions gathering enthusiasts from around the globe. Also, becoming gamers or game developers is a lucrative and much sought-after career option.

So why not embrace the phenomenon and get to know what your child is playing? It could also be a bonding opportunity as your children could teach you to play their favourite game. The list of the most popular games that children play keeps changing every year. Here’s a list of the five most trending and popular games children are playing today. A word of caution – try to do your own research as no one knows your child better than you do. While some ratings will claim that a particular game is appropriate for a teen, you might feel your child isn’t ready yet. Refer to parent ratings on Common Sense Media or the Entertainment Software Review Board (ESRB). We’ve listed some of the recommended ages and potential risks mentioned on these sites to help you decide.

Minecraft

Minecraft is a sandbox video game that allows players to explore a blocky, 3D world, crafting tools and building structures as they go. With limitless possibilities for creativity and exploration, players can mine resources and construct elaborate structures; from simple homes to entire cities. The game offers various modes, including Survival, where players must gather resources and fend off enemies, and Creative, which provides unlimited resources for building. With its open-ended gameplay and vibrant community, Minecraft has become one of the best-selling video games of all time, appealing to players of all ages.

Ideal age for Minecraft: 8 years and up

Potential risks with Minecraft: Because players can create whatever they imagine, they could create offensive content that younger players stumble upon.

Learn more about Minecraft here.

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Fortnite

Fortnite is a popular online multiplayer game where up to 100 players fight to be the last one standing on an ever-shrinking island. Known for its colourful graphics, fast-paced gameplay and unique building mechanics, Fortnite has become a cultural phenomenon since its release. Players can team up with friends or go solo, scavenging for weapons, resources and power-ups while battling opponents and avoiding the encroaching storm. With regular updates, limited-time events and a vibrant community, Fortnite offers endless excitement and competitive action for players of all skill levels.

Ideal age for Fortnite: 13 years and up

Potential risks with Fortnite: The violence isn’t particularly gory and is more cartoonish, but you are, after all, using weapons and firearms to eliminate opponents. Besides, the game encourages players to make in-game purchases so keep a watch on your wallet!

Learn more about Fortnite here.

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Valorant

Valorant is a tactical first-person shooter game developed and published by Riot Games. Set in a near-future earth, players assume the roles of ‘agents’, each with unique abilities as they compete in 5v5 matches. Combining precise gunplay with strategic abilities, Valorant emphasises teamwork, communication and precise execution and has quickly become a popular title in the esports scene.

Ideal age for Valorant: 14 years and up

Potential risks with Valorant: Mild profanity in the dialogues and in-chat feature

Learn more about Valorant here.

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League Of Legends

League of Legends (LoL) is a multiplayer online battle arena (MOBA) game. In League of Legends, players assume the roles of powerful champions with unique abilities, competing in teams to destroy the opposing team’s base while defending their own. Matches take place on a variety of maps, with gameplay focusing on strategic decision-making, teamwork, and individual skill. With a vast roster of champions, regular updates and a thriving esports scene, League of Legends attracts millions of players globally.

Ideal age for League of Legends: 14 years and up

Potential risks with League of Legends: Mild violence and suggestive themes

Learn more about League of Legends here.

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Apex Legends

Apex Legends is a free-to-play battle royale game developed by Respawn Entertainment and published by Electronic Arts. It features fast-paced, squad-based gameplay where teams of three players compete against each other on a constantly shrinking map. Players choose from a diverse roster of characters, each with unique abilities and playstyles, known as ‘Legends’. With its emphasis on teamwork, communication, and strategic decision-making, Apex Legends has gained popularity for its dynamic gameplay, diversity in characters and regular updates.

Ideal age for Apex Legends: 14 years and up

Potential risks with Apex Legends: Be warned that this game has blood-splatter effects, realistic gunfire and large explosions.

Learn more about Apex Legends here.

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